Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
As far as DBing, the stuff I put out to you is outside the scope of things in a way. It could certainly help you in all your Rs but it might take some further reading and reflection.
Your suggestion has struck a chord with me, and i believe this is an area that i should prioritise for examination. Thank you very much. I have googled 'vulnerable and open' and have a good starting point. At least it will put my focus back on me, instead of my situation or wife.


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014