Me 8 months on, dark and trying to detach.

[hotwheelsaust]

Firstly thanks everyone for the replies. I have very limited Internet for the next week and a half, maccas wifi only.
The wife told me she didn't feel loved while we were talking on the phone.
Adinva, no I don't think she is wrong, I was wrong in not showing her the love in a way she needed.
BrightFuture I did ask what I could do and got told by text nothing, she doesn't love me anymore and nothing can be done to change that.
GalBaby, I tried to validate a lot during the call, but don't know how great I was.
Lovethehub, at the time I apologised, but I would have given the justification of "I didn't show it the way you needed to see" as per my above message.
Show I send another text as per your apology you wrote?
Outside of all this, somehow I have reached a kind of acceptance now. Knowing she cannot come back home for another year longer, knowing she didn't come back home to her sons and knowing she put her friend above all these things has made it quite final. On top of that I found out she did have a letter from the solicitor sent a few weeks ago with regards to the settlement of finances. She advised she will resend it.
Right or wrong, most likely wrong, I did advise I would be quite happy and comfortable to stay another year, but we would need to be seeing a mc.
Ok hit me with the 2 x 4s. I won't be doing anything else until I hear from you all.