My wife looked at me and said "I'm not ready to come home, I need to keep running".
Sounds similar to what my W said at our anniversary date and her unexpected movie choice : "I am into fantasy, not reality, ....right now...." With my W I am thinking her own frustrations were driving the BD three weeks before, and wanting to run (there is a heaping handful of mind reading in there on my part).
I feel like your W isn't quite done from that statement given sorta offhandedly if I read you correctly... But she sounds like she is tired of limbo too like my W (and us), just still don't quite sit comfortably with the work and trying to move closer. Running seems the easier path still. YMMV as usual.
Sorry if post isn't as clear, I am replying on my phone and I svck at phone typing. T^2.
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