Thanks AS. I had decided to go Dark except for the children and I will focus on 180 for myself. I need to set goals and become the man only a fool would leave.
When she dropped in to collect s7 cycling stuff she commented on the changes to the hall where i have put racks in for my bikes. She said "nice wall art, you have been waiting to do that, must be glad that I am out of the way". I said it made sense to store the bike in the hall and I am not glad she has gone but it did male the lounge neater and I have racks for the kids bikes.
It feels good not to get drawn into the flame. I can see it confuses her as well as she has no outlet for her anger.
Thank you for your help
Me 44 WAS 41 T 11 S 8 D 5 DB November 2012 EA and PA discovered December 2012 WAS moved out 4 May 2013 Share residence of S and D 50/50 WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.