Thanks AS. I had decided to go Dark except for the children and I will focus on 180 for myself. I need to set goals and become the man only a fool would leave.

When she dropped in to collect s7 cycling stuff she commented on the changes to the hall where i have put racks in for my bikes. She said "nice wall art, you have been waiting to do that, must be glad that I am out of the way". I said it made sense to store the bike in the hall and I am not glad she has gone but it did male the lounge neater and I have racks for the kids bikes.

It feels good not to get drawn into the flame. I can see it confuses her as well as she has no outlet for her anger.

Thank you for your help


Me 44
WAS 41
T 11
S 8
D 5
DB November 2012
EA and PA discovered December 2012
WAS moved out 4 May 2013
Share residence of S and D 50/50
WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.