Originally Posted By: waitingformagic
...seeing that I am making changes for me... is this true?


It appears that way to me. We are all works in progress. Keep moving yourself forward and bettering yourself.

Originally Posted By: waitingformagic
..., am I DB'ing?


Again, it appears that way to me.

We started you off with a clean slate some time last week, IIRC. You had some mid course adjustments to make and it seems that you are on a positive path, now.

Yes, keep the focus on you and keep doing your work... and for goodness sake, call that counsellor and make that appointment.