Great list of goals, etc but I think you need to state in writing, what you will do when you're alone and vulnerable and want to contact your W. We've all been there. How about an accountability friend you can call who will talk you through the craving.
I never initiate contact with her unless it's necessary because of the kids. I've gotten really good at no contact from me.
Originally Posted By: labug
Another question,why do you need to send XW a message? You don't have to contact her to let her know you're not going to contact her, do you?
I want her to stop contacting me.
Originally Posted By: labug
Sounds like you had a great time at the beach! Good.
It was really fun and we all had blast!
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
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