I have to admit reading thru the posts, I laughed so hard that my eyes were watering. All you gals (not meant to be derogatory) have such a great sense of humor. I really needed the laugh too!
Your determination to not just take care of yourself and family, but to see this all thru while holding your head up high and taking it on the chin here and there is truly a fantastic motivation for others.
I don't want to get to positive and jinx it all, but sounds like your SO is about to crack.
Keep up with the positive outlook on life. Good luck