I keep receiving H's mail. I told him over a year ago that I would no longer hold it for him. Last week I received a second notice for his car registration which was due in May. I tossed the first one and the second. Not my problem. Today I received his new credit card which can only be activated from our home phone. He must receive his statement electronically, but I receive everything else. Last year when he renewed his license (new picture and all) he used our address even though he was living with his gf by then. I do not understand why he isn't changing his mail. I know he has a post box near work, but for some reason he isn't using that and/or his home address for all of his mail.

I noticed that H used his co-workers phone (I doubt the guy would call me, especially early in the morning) to call my home phone yesterday. I had already left for work, but wouldn't have answered. There was no message, just several calls on the log. I haven't blocked H from that phone in case of an emergency, so I'm not sure why the need to use someone else's phone.

No matter how much I read about MLC I can't wrap my mind around it. It's been the worst experience of my life.