No ASSuming please... give her time and space... you have built a strong foundation, you have been there for her, she has a lot to sort through. You have all of us here to talk to, to encourage you, to keep you moving in the right direction. Who does she have? Give her time to figure this out. Take care of YOU.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.