T, I'm sorry your kids are having such a hard time. Mine are doing ok academically although S16 went from straight A's to mostly B's. They both have had signs of PTSD and said they have a hard time paying attention in school. Emotionally, it's hard to say. They tell me more than anything they miss me being home with them. Wanting the very best for my boys has brought me to this very tough decision point. No matter what, they can't have another school year like the last two. Wondering what my H is going to pull next and whether we will have to move or not has taken it's toll on all of us.
Hang in there, T. It's so hard when your spouse goes crazy. Keep holding down the homefront for your kids.
