"I Love you but love her too"....WHAT?

[Notlikingthis]

The ow was suppose to be here today but h had to make a last minute business trip. He left yesterday and isn't returning till tomorrow evening. Wonder if the ow had to change her plans or if she'll spend the night at the airport waiting for his flight to land. LOL I guess his job is still more important than the ow.

I've settled myself down a bit over the ow coming to live here. I do worry about what will happen when my daughter sees them together in town. He agreed with me that it wouldn't be a good thing for her to see. Even though she is disabled, she doesn't miss a thing. I have purposely not let her come to the house since he moved out. She will put the missing bed, the new use for that bedroom and the gaps in the closet together and figure it out. If she does, it won't be a good thing. She doesn't accept change very easily and if she sees him too often with someone that she doesn't recognize that might just put her over the edge. I don't know how he is going to handle it if she approaches him and the ow. Why do these mlcers do this in their own backyard? He's said in the past that he doesn't care who knows or who sees them together yet he tells our older daughter not to tell anyone. I feel sorry for the first neighbor, friend or business owner that confronts him. Unless he changes his behavior he'll be run out of town or lose many of the friends that we've made since moving here. That is one of my biggest fears. I don't want to have to explain anything to anyone nor do I want friends to give me their advice or opinion on what I should do. What a mess he has created.

He texted a few hours ago telling me that his meetings went well. He didn't say whether he was staying longer than he originally planned and not a word about the ow. I haven't answered him yet and probably won't.

With the ow coming I need to do something but I'm not sure how far I need to go yet. Right now I want to be totally unavailable to him for anything other than emergencies. Am I do it out of anger or because I don't think I can handle talking to him. I'll sleep on it and see how I feel tomorrow.