I am not sure about the chances of reconciliation, but the chances of me getting completely fed up and filing myself are much higher with her in the house.
I guess that is what I am going through, it's the in your face factor that's too hard to deal with. Even when H is sneaky, I'm too smart for my own good, so then I'm double angry because he's lying.
But I wonder the chances of a reconciliation with them gone That was also the big quandary I've been dealing with, he needs to be witness to my GAL, and be there to be validated and treated by example. How do I set boundaries with someone who's not here to observe them?
There is no right or wrong answer...there is nothing I can do either way to make this right, or bring about change to my sitch.
Portia, "What I also need to learn is for ME to treat ME like I am first best" exactly, and I hope to learn that from you and all those of you who can do that, so I too can put ME first.
It's an everyday struggle, still taking those baby steps!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
