Moving forward together from a mess

[cbtdad]

So I was able to ask W some of the traits that she was attracted to with OM during a conversation. We were talking about things when we first met and how those things are great, but that those "addictive feelings" disappear. I said speaking of that just curious what are some things about OM that attracted you to him. She said, he was very nice and said the right things at the right time when she needed to hear them. She liked the way he dressed. Frat boy look. Of course the fact that him and his whole family were involved in the horse show world. Those i already knew about. The two new ones and only thing she said was that she liked the fact she didn't have to pull out her card for dinner and that she liked that he wanted to be around her. But mostly she said it was the excitement. Something new. Being able leave town and not have to worry about son or house or life issues. I asked kind of like fantasy world. She said yes.