Snodderly ~ spot on! Trying to find the time to contact counselor, SOON! As for lawyer, I have a contact in mind. BUT, am not quite ready to see him yet. Next week h has mentioned we can talk. I will not agree to ANYTHING (will listen instead and ask questions). Based on a brief heated discussion last night about inventory and loss, that continued today...sounds like he is willing to be fair. I have every intention of discussing with a lawyer after I talk with him. We need a strategy and one that includes an exit strategy too.
Yes... I pray often... and am placing it all in God's hands. I have been that scared little mouse... trying to please him (it got me nowhere, really.)
KD ~ yes, it was either...but, also a passing comment. Something he is thinking about. No decisions. I think you may be right... I am focusing and obsessing on these boards. I need to focus on specific advice. Hoping to find time to call him again, ASAP. Kinda drowning in inventory atm. Please & thank you for continuing to support me.
I feel that you both are now seeing that I am making changes for me... is this true? And wanting something more for myself is part of my Co-d lessons: Letting go of h, not focusing on what he is doing, Standing up for myself (creating boundaries), Speaking calmly, Not being baited, validating, etc....., am I DB'ing?
Keeping the focus on me!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
