This is exactly the same sitch that I'm in at the mo. My H is planning to file for D and I'm not ready for this! He's only left 2 months ago. As far as I know he's got no OW, though he told me today he's got 2 females who keep ringing him up and asking how he is. He said he's not interested in either of them and they are annoying him. I felt like telling him that I've had attention as well, but I didn't say anything! Being mysterious is the key. I don't cry that much, I don't know if this is a good thing or not. I cried for about 2-3 days on and off when he first left because I felt there was no hope. Then I started joining forums and reading books and that helped me wipe away my tears When he told me he was going for D, I was crying then. I went on the internet to find out some advice and I came across the book DB. I ordered it, read it, then found out there was another book called DR which I am currently reading. It has given me hope that there could be a chance that we may get to R one day. Hope you get some sleep tonight Kelela The other similarity is that we weren't intimate with each other, but it was only 4 years and not as long as you. You can read my story on the newcomers page as well I do have a life which is very full at the mo. I've now finished college, but I'm still busy!! I'm going to a carer's meeting tomorrow morning, having lunch with my son before taking him to college, hanging round the town until it's time to pick my son up again from college, going to have some dinner then off to youth club. phew!! Friday I'm meeting a friend for a coffee, Saturday I'm having a boot sale with another friend and Sunday another friend is coming round here to have her legs waxed and hopefully she will be able to do mine as well! We've just finished our level 2 beauty course so we often meet up to do treatments on each other Next week is just as busy!!! How I ever managed to fit college in I don't know, lol. It'll take me a few days to find I suddenly have nothing to do and then I can start making improvements to my home
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
