Kelela,

I am sorry you had a painful development today.

Some things to keep in mind. Divorce is a lengthy process and many things, good and bad, can happen between now and the finish. And then many more good and bad things can happen after the finish too.

I know you are in a whirlpool right now, and are struggling with your best course of action. You really don't have to make every single decision right now, so don't feel so overwhelmed. It is very very smart to think about protecting yourself and your children because often when money gets involved in a sitch people become reluctant to "play fair".

I would like to hear what you meant by the quote below?

Originally Posted By: kelela
I have to stop being the way I am.


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.