Fwiw, I have never had a dream I felt had any special meaning or message. However, I have experienced what you did in that service. Sometime it is a message of hope, sometime it is guidance, or a better understanding.. Knowing in the One you believe and trusting Him to do things His way and in His time ........that is the really hard part.
Btw, good job in making plans for vacation with S.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!