Thanks KD and Sandi, I am taking your advice. I definitely wasn't leaving my home, just wasn't sure I wanted to continue on the same path because I feel we have done it before.
If I look at my situation realistically, I do see a little progress, I do see that he appears to think I am the one who needs to change, I do see why he is afraid to trust I am changing and that it will last. I have told him that I need to hear him verbally tell me at some point that he is willing to actively work on creating a new, better marriage. Until I hear it, I will keep doing what I am doing. If, at some point, I feel I have waited too long, I will worry about that then.
I really appreciate the advice
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
