Rock. She is openly humiliating and cheating on you in the house? What is your boundary on that? You kids are watching, so it matters. She is not going to be more discrete, and even if she was, I can't see that as having a healthy boundary.
I have to ask myself (as a Christian) - if my spouse did x, would I be helping or hindering if I let it go one (for a long time, as if it were normal)? What am I teaching my kids? Is that helping them in their walk? Or is it going to destroy them? As for my spouse - if she were doing those things, am I helping her on her walk? As a leader, is it right for me to do that regardless of the reason behind it (which I do not know)?
Perhaps I'm missing the bigger picture though..
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
