UGH... my bid won! Oh well, at least it wasn't expensive and it didn't escalate into a fight.

I have been reading on other threads how a "loss" must be felt for the WAS to notice. In my case, due to working together... how can a loss be felt/noticed by him?

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)