When I read they won't really get it until they lose you, I feel he didn't lose me after he was a WAH but he lost me before that when I was a WAW. So I am assuming walking away again is a bad idea
Don't know which post you may be referring to about the WAS losing. I often tell the LBS similar advice. However, I don't remember ever saying the WAS had to lose the LBS. I do believe the WAS has to lose "something" before they get their eyes open and the fog clears. In my stitch, it was not my LBH I lost.
Your stitch cannot always take blanket advice you may read on somebody else's thread. Both you and your H have experienced loss. This merry-go-round has continued until neither of you know exactly who is walking away and who is left behind.
In your stitch, I would not advise (at this time) to leave the home, hoping to snap him into wanting you back. I doubt seriously if it would work.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
