Hi Tvs,

About the hug....of course we all want you to have a great hug, from H. But....you hafta be okay if he doesn't reciprocate. And you'll have to be okay with that disappointment.

"My opinion is, if it feels right, go for it. Might give him something to think about and I dont think you will lose any ground having tried it.".

Yes, I think you won't lose any ground with H. Just concerned about your feelings. Maybe you'll be able to tell...if he wants one...or perhaps another opportunity for connection will make itself known. Idk.

Post more as you're ready.

You can have a hug from me smile
((((((((((Tvs))))))))))


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway