With all due respect (congratulations for saving your marriage), I think you should move this thread to Newcomers. After all, they are the ones who need to read your encouraging story.
The rest of us have already been through divorce, and those of us who are here are working on finding ways to cope, date and love post-D. In our case, the barn door is open and the animals have long fled for greener pastures.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
