Portia,

I also concur with a lot of the other post and feelings of done, decisions, and time.

I can tell you, I am not putting any effort into reconciliation or being done.

I am just being right now.

BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life