She hasn't been able to use my cards for a couple of months now, I have my TRW run/checked every week. That's why she's now blowing thru her paychecks and not paying the bills she had agreed to. She's robbing peter to pay paul, except the paul part isn't getting paid, and just making a mess of my finances. Its getting to a point where im struggling just buying food for my son and I. Since I don't see her paycheck or what she is or isn't paying its almost impossible to stay ahead of the game.