Letting Go & Moving Forward 2

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Okay, so last night cute D'ed dad that I have been texting a little texted me at 12:30am. Texts were light as usual until he said, "Too bad you can't hang out! I'm all by my lonesome."

I have to say in that moment I WANTED to go over to his house to hang out (nothing but to sit and have a conversation face to face). Actually, I have been thinking about the whole thing.

I don't want to date him, I don't want to have an EA or PA with him. I just want to have a friend to talk to, esp at night.

Is this so wrong? Will this cloud my view about my M or will it help to move me forward in life (as I feel more and more ready to do)?

I agree with Bug, this is a booty call. Even if that isn't all he wants, I doubt he is looking for a friend. Be honest with yourself about what it is you really want. If you only want to be friends, why the flirty texting? It send the wrong message. If that is all you want you should be clear about it now, not when you end up at his house and he is trying to put the moves on you.

If you are interested, and you are moving on, 14 years makes no difference, it's pretty common these days.