Been working at the DB pretty hard the last couple of days.
Wife informs me that she going to vegas with "friends" for 5 days of camping during the 4th of july weekend. Camping in vegas?? ok
Then tells me when she gets back, she'll be back for 2 days, then is leaving for Denver.
I don't know how much more our finances can take. She's taken roughly 15 trips in the last year with her friends.
I'm in kinda a unique situation. We already have separate accts due to me being self employed. I'm finding out she's had credit cards issued on my accts in her name. I found 2 in her car. Her credit is so terrible she couldn't get financed for a candy bar. EVERYTHING we own is in my name, including "her" car which I still owe a lot on.
I tried to get an apt. a couple of months ago, but due to me only being able to list one income, and all the bills in my name, I was declinded due to my debt ratio being 85%. Even if I offerd to pay the whole 6 month lease in advance. Now im having to pay bills she agreed to, so my credit doesn't take a hit. So I've managed to go thru my savings to stay afloat. I've never seen her paycheck but now know why she's broke, these trips are killing me two fold.
I'm not sure what to do. I cant see any of this is getting me anywhere but the poor house, and of course she's not slowing down anytime soon it looks like. I have/had a full head of hair, its now starting to fall out due to the stress of my business, and covering all the bills. All while I watch my wife take off on trip after trip, with no regards to food, bills, or the family.
