Thanks AloneStander. It's good to see to small signs that what I am doing is working. I was starting to feel like there was no hope and i was almost ready to give up. Thank goodness for this forum... and thanks for the advice everyone. For now i am going to continue to let him be the one to initiate any affection.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.