My H got home late last night. He came to bed and was just staring at me. My H actually told me he wanted to snuggle and kissed me on the back. Then he grabbed my hand and squeezed it a few times. I am so confused. This is the first time he has reached out to me physically in a few months. I was flabergasted. I hope this is a positive sign. Maybe he had a good/positive conversation with his brother?
This is actually not unusual. You've been giving him time and space and working on yourself, now he's starting to wonder if he might lose you so he's reaching out with a little pursuit behavior. DO NOT overreact to it. He will pull back again, just expect it and try not to be too upset when it happens. Right now he's not committed to reconciliation, he's just trying to keep you on the hook. Play it cool, keep up with your DB'ing. Keep being mysterious and keep up your GAL.
