Swimming Upstream Against the Current

[RosaLinda]

"When is enough, enough? In other words how do you know when you are done? Bea and others have said that you will KNOW you are done and if you have to ask you probably aren't. 

I wonder for those of you that did experience being done, what did it feel like to you?

Was it a feeling for all of you? Or can I decide? I would love to hear some experiences."

I would love to hear others' experiences too. 

Thanks for sharing yours Snodderly and Bea. It gives me hope that being "done" was such a strong recognizable feeling for you Snodderly. Like Bea, I don't know if I'll ever be "done." I cannot imagine feeling like that. But I fear that is exactly how my H feels about me