Swimming Upstream Against the Current

[BRNR]

I feel on the fence about being done....... If he contacts me, I can go from there but I do not want to chase someone who is not interested in me.

Portia, I can understand this feeling. I am with you on this one although my sitch is different. I don't think my H realizes the error in his ways and thinks that what is happening is just moving on with his life. I won't chase him or ask him to come back to his family either. It will have to be a decision he makes.

My personal opinion is that if your xSO wanted you in his life he would show it. At this time, he is not. So I think you have it right about not contacting him anymore.

When is enough, enough? I don't have that answer. Wish I did. And I can't guide you either, no more than we can guide our Mlc'ers.

Sorry to be a downer this morning, but I just wanted to respond that I am right here with you girlfriend.

((((Portia))))