Welcome back Bright! I'm glad you had a relaxing vacation! You sound like you're mentally in a good place -- don't let those bad feelings back in.
Your sister's comments about your h's female friends was interesting. I've been learning on this forum that people in MLC do NOT pick the sort of OP you'd expect at all! Of course there was no comparison to fabulous you!!
Did you end up driving your h's car? Had he made any changes to your vacation home? Does he know you're back?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17