Originally Posted By: prometheus

Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Regarding being open and vulnerable with people
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What would an/some example/s of this look like. I don't want to sound emotionally challenged or anything(although i could be), it is just that i have not been in the habit of thinking about this stuff and am unsure.


Does anyone here have any insights into my question here? Or is this stuff not really important in the scheme of things? I mean, i can see this as a growth exercise for me, because i have tended to be pretty 'self contained' in the past.
As i reflect upon that fact i realise that it is a trait that has often not served me well. How to move on? Be open and vulnerable? The word 'trust' popped into my head. I need to trust people....to do that i feel that i would need to adopt an attitude of what i have labelled(wrongly or rightly) as 'recklessness'. To me, that sounds pretty mixed up, and probably a bit off topic.

Any thoughts would be accepted glady. smile


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
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