IMO I don't think you should ask. First he doesn't dictate what life is for GTO. Even if you ask I don't think he will tell you the truth. I think he wants to keep you for insurance.
What about just move on and let him feel the loss. But you have to be prepared in going through with it. Know jour rights, consult L's etc. gotta have a plan Before moving forward for you and sons.
What do you feel GTO? Are you ready to move on without him? I think you are. IMO, he knows where to find you. If he wants M with you, you would know. Make him work at it. Remember how you were his priority in your M before...well get that back and don't settle for anything less.
You deserve better and he has to give you better. You know what I mean?
But this is my opinion and you know where I stand on things...this is how I feel about my sitch too.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
