Linda, just like a lawyer to use my own posting against me!
The truth is that while I wish my situation was different, it isn't. And I am not in pain. Disappointed and sad at times, for sure.
Bea started a good topic on her thread that I would like to carry here. The discussion is just so close to my heart right now.
When is enough, enough? In other words how do you know when you are done? Bea and others have said that you will KNOW you are done and if you have to ask you probably aren't.
I wonder for those of you that did experience being done, what did it feel like to you?
Was it a feeling for all of you? Or can I decide? I would love to hear some experiences.
I feel on the fence about being done. I know that some of you felt that answering my text was a positive step, some thought it was negative and I was pretty neutral. Given the facts of my situation I do not want to initiate contact. Is it pride or self respect? If he contacts me, I can go from there but I do not want to chase someone who is not interested in me.
