I know you are hurting right now, but you DO have to let him go.
You will get there, but you have to start taking care of yourself.
And, you are right- there is nothing you can do about your H and OW having their A. Mine is in exactly the same sitch. They just want to be together in their own little fantasy world.
You do have to protect your kids. Do NOT involve them in any way, shape or form in your M crisis. In fact, do everything you can to PROMOTE the R w their dad. This will come back to serve you well down the road-either way!
Hang in there, sweetie, I know this is hard!!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
