"So i will have to let them keep doing what they are doing and let them keep hurting each of their families."

No. YOU have to help your kids from being hurt. Don't just accept things the way they are. Be the strong mother you need to be for them.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER