I guess you are so right I used my kids to not being intimate with my husband and that is why he started to have PA and EA on me all those years ago. I finally stuck my nose into the DB book this is most likely my last chance to save my marriage. I do not see any end to my H and OW affair. I'm planning to seek advice from a lawyer very soon to see what I'm in titled too. I also just learned that OW is married and OW H found out about her affair with my H and OW H called my H and chewwd my H up and down for having an affair with his wife. Neither my H or Ow cares that they are hurting two family's with their affair. All they care is how much they want to be with each other. I hope that one day they will wake up and relize that they had hurt everyone in their own family and it will be to late to get their families back. So i will have to let them keep doing what they are doing and let them keep hurting each of their families.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
