Hello all. It's been a week since my last post. Things have continued to go along smoothly. W wants to be around. W wants me to be around her. She is hugging and kissing, holding hands, etc. This is the most affection she has shown to me in the last 8 months.
Grizz, I think this is good. Enjoy it.
Originally Posted By: Grizz
Now my question is, how/when do you ask what is going on? AS, I know you said that I may be plan B. I do understand that but how do I know? If that is all that is going on then that is obviously unacceptable. However, I don't think it is a good idea to bring that topic up.
I suggest you don't bring it up. If you bring up the topic, she might react negatively. Let it flow naturally. When she is ready to bring up the R, then let her.
Originally Posted By: Grizz
Even though she has moved out, we see each other alot. She invites me over to eat and go to the pool with the kids. I almost always go because that is extra time with the kids and if she really wants to be with me (not plan B) then I am happy to be with her.
How about you accept only 2 out 3 invites? Don't be so available, let her wonder what you're up to that your not accepting.
Originally Posted By: Grizz
I have had really good PMA recently until the past two days. I have been thinking more and more that I am plan B and this is affecting my mood. I know she can sense this also even though she hasn't mentioned it. I haven't been passive aggressive in a long time but I have been a little more stand offish these past two days and I don't like it.
I agree, it is difficult for me too because my W knows me very well. The separation is new and she need to learn that you are not too available to her. That a separation has consequences.
