Hello all. It's been a week since my last post. Things have continued to go along smoothly. W wants to be around. W wants me to be around her. She is hugging and kissing, holding hands, etc. This is the most affection she has shown to me in the last 8 months.
Now my question is, how/when do you ask what is going on? AS, I know you said that I may be plan B. I do understand that but how do I know? If that is all that is going on then that is obviously unacceptable. However, I don't think it is a good idea to bring that topic up.
Even though she has moved out, we see each other alot. She invites me over to eat and go to the pool with the kids. I almost always go because that is extra time with the kids and if she really wants to be with me (not plan B) then I am happy to be with her.
I have had really good PMA recently until the past two days. I have been thinking more and more that I am plan B and this is affecting my mood. I know she can sense this also even though she hasn't mentioned it. I haven't been passive aggressive in a long time but I have been a little more stand offish these past two days and I don't like it.
Do I continue to play like we are working on us, not knowing if I am plan B, just to be terribly hurt again? Or, do I back off, losing time with the kids and her, and looking like I am pouting or upset just in case I am plan B? I have no idea what to do.
I haven't felt this low in a while now. What happened to my PMA?
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.