My mother is dying. XW wants to be my friend.

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I think it's really VERY sad that they are not going. I believe that it's because they'll feel guilty if they go. They know you'll be hurt.

Actually 25, S20 told her that he would never go right after she left. S22 told her that he wasn't going about 6 months ago. S27 and S18 decided not to go a few days before.

I actually told them all to go if they wanted to, but don't go if they feel like they HAVE to.

I hate the way they feel towards their mother but.....I do not blame them.

Why did your mom Not want you to come by when she was sick from chemo?

I think it is because she doesn't want me to see her sick. She has the treatments on Tuesdays and I usually will wait for Thursday to call her. They are making her very sick. She does have a lot of help from her friends at church. They clean for her and help her with everything she needs.

I wish that she would try the cannabis treatments, but she won't. I think she is thinking about giving up.

As for me, when X got married it was really tough for a few days, but it is getting easier and I do feel some relief. For the past year, I've had "JUNE 15TH" hanging over my head. Now the date has passed and I do feel like a giant truck has been lifted from me.

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