My W signed the documents last night and the judge signed this morning. I'm officially divorced today.
My W asked me to lunch today, which turned into a 3 hour visit. She said she would have delayed the D indefinitely if I wasn't so insistent last week. That makes a lot of sense to me, and I kind of expected it, but I also think it would have left us repeating the same cycle over and over...something I can no longer do.
She's really been reading a lot and trying to figure some things out....that is great. I hope she continues down that path and starts to figure her own stuff out....I think her only true path to happiness goes thru that work.
I'm actively house hunting and have a short list of things I need to get settled again. But I'm also trying to work in as much GAL as I can. I expect the next couple of months to be hectic and busy, but I'm excited about what's out in front of me.
