OUCH!! LOL! OK, well I'm told I'm an amazing kisser, I don't say that to boast but to explain why they then want to tell me all their war stories about bad kissing. It seems that most guys think great kissing is trying to ram their tongue down the woman's throat or check their molars out with it or flop their tongue around like a fish just pulled out of the water, but most women want a much more tender and gentle approach. Many women are absolutely repulsed by a bad kisser. Some will just tell bad kissers that they hate kissing (even though they don't) just so they can avoid having to suffer it again. The flip side of that is women find great kissing to be incredibly erotic, so mastering kissing can open the door to making an amazing connection with someone. Anyway, if your W says she wants closed mouth kissing, then go with that for now. Master that before trying open-mouthed kissing again. Communicate with her, ask her what she likes and doesn't like about your kissing. Then try to follow through on that, and ask her if you're doing better. She'll no doubt be flattered that you're asking because it shows her that you're listening to her and that you genuinely care about her desires.
Lol, thats the funny part, I don't think shes a good kisser. From how you describe it she kisses like a guy. I feel like she tries to stick her tongue half way down my throat. I try to be more sensual about it. I've kissed many women before my W and never had any complaints.
I've told her we need to re-try and find a new technique but she just kind of laughs it off. I'll try further to communicate with her and see where that takes me.
Back to the basics!
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing
