ugh Portia ~ he seems to be interested in his own world ATM. Sorry you didn't get the reception you were hoping for. Obviously he needs more time. I don't know which is worse/better.... hearing from them all the time (like me), or actually getting space and a break (like you).
Either way, take care of yourself & your cold. Keep looking for the positives in the day (drilling this into my head as I tell you).
Have a good one!
"Yesterday reminds us of where we have been; today we decide where we are going"
wfm
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)