Yes, that IS what I'm saying, PON. Many people "know" that, even before they end up in a sitch with their M. Many people remember that when they ARE in a stich with their M.
People do generally have a sense that a partner "completes" them. The reality is, a partner ADDS to them. And when there's a true synergy, the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.
I might understand what you mean by feeling your M is truly over. Remember you will still vacillate to some degree.
To be fair, I don't think you have any problem with waiting. You could do this for the rest of your life.
So when are you going to do something... REALLY different?
