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I thought that I was walking a fine line before but now it almost feels like I am Darned if I do and Darned if I don't




I think, hon, that when you feel this way, the best thing to do is put the focus back on working on yourself, and on getting a happier life for yourself. The happier, healthier you are, the better the chances for your R. And you really don't have control over whether she gets better or not, deals with her demons or not. Just be loving and patient, but don't lose focus on the new you that you've been building - how are those flying lessons going by the way?

Ellie