snodderly

"I like the excuse she used for staying married. She really has no real reason for divorcing you, but in her mind, she's trying to do the right thing because she thinks you won't be able to handle a divorce."

This wasn't that I couldn't handle divorce, that I wouldn't be reasonable during it. She said we couldn't mediate. That I'm impossible to work with. Becausing during mediation I said I want my kids 50/50 and 50/50 on holidays. She didn't like it and the mediator said my body language and the way I acted would not work. He actually called my W and told her this stuff. (unprofessional)