So glad you took the opportunity for some time to unwind and mentally regroup TVS. Raising smalll boys is a difficult and exhausting job itself, without the added stress of dealing with a crazy person. 

Bea I thought of MLC as a red sports car joke too. I guess the joke's on us. I remember one of our local doctors going through it years ago. He was in his early 50's, with two sons in their 20's and a well-preserved, attractive but definitely older wife. We noticed that he suddenly started growing his hair long, working out, bought a snappy little convertible, and hanging out with one of the wilder young nurses. The nurse got pregnant and his wife divorced him. We all shook our heads at the stupid man and his funny-sad story, and made stupid unfeeling jokes about MLC. Little did I suspect that a few years later I'd be living the nightmare his poor wife and sons had lived. My H is not as visible in the community, and his antics not as well known, but if he returns from Moscow with RT in tow as his fiance, I bet I'll be the butt of many sniggers and jokes too frown


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17