Odga, I just want you to know that you have been such an inspiration to me and I am sure that whatever you are going through now with C, you will both make it. It seems like the 2 of you are growing so close and forming a deep emotional bond and I have great faith in your success! Keep it up and I thoughts are with you!
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I have just finished my latte and a call from another caller who inspired me by his insight and committed patience, and I immediately thought of you OGDA! I'm glad to see there are positive behaviors you're continuing to note. I also see that you are making a commitment to patience - bless you! Take care for now,
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I am coming to your threads for the first time. Reading through this thread and realizing the great progress in your R is inspiring. Then, reading further down the thread and realizing that you have been faced with some VERY REAL emergency, I am dumbstruck and very grateful that you took the time to post to me on my thread.
Thank you for taking the time to care. I absolutely will have you and C in my thoughts at prayer time.
Hi all - a few more positives - I need to keep reminding myself of them.
1. I got one of Michele's books "how to get through to the man you love" about 2 months ago and gave it to C. Told her not to read it until she really wanted to and to not feel any pressure to read it at all. She did read a little right off the bat but then put it down. Well she just quoted something from the book to me which indicates that she picked it up again.
2. After what happened and the seriousness of it setting in I have started having a hard time concentrating on ... well anything, even work. had appointments all afternoon but just walked out of the office at 1. I went to the Dr. and she put me on Wellbutrin XL and something called Alprazolam. Seems that I have been going through alot and then last sunday just kinda put me over the edge alittle. There is some good there though. I was off the IM all afternoon and when I got home I had to do some IM with my secretary to clear up some things that just had to be done and C noticed I was on my home computer and IMed HI. it came out that I was at the Dr. all afternoon and she asked if I was OK - I told her I would be fine and not to worry about me. She replied "it's hard not to"
I have to go to court first thing tomorrow but I will also take off the rest of the day and just chill. I need it. I have several DVD's that I have not seen yet anyway.
Those are good signs! I hope you hear a few more "quotes" coming your way this week.
Also, I am glad you took the steps you did to address your symptoms. Let me know if it offers some relief. Did your Dr. explain how this med works and when to expect relief?
Take care OGDA!
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