"You and I are really having similar thoughts these days!"

Great minds think alike lol!

"Having someone else give you a tiny bit of the attention you've been missing (not to mention the eventual LOVE) is something I want again. And for me it has been AT LEAST 18 months since H has been involved in EA and another 6 that he has been emotionally absent from our M."

Agreed. You know what else ? I miss the time when I get home and share my day with my W. Even as she said we were distant in the 18 yrs together (which is not true), we shared our day almost everyday. I have a very stressful job and sometimes i just want to share how I handled my day. Ok no more pity party for me lol, I'm a big boy and I can handle it.

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.